Which do you prefer - queer or LGBTQ?
Blaire’s book, Marci’s front porch
As we keep digesting Blaire Ostler’s fabulous volume Queer Mormon Theology (don’t waste one more minute without this book in your life), we’re wondering how others feel about her use of the word “queer” (pages 8-10). One of the ways Blaire uses this term is this:
I use the term “queer” as an umbrella term for those in the LGBTQIA+ community. As a matter of practicality, it is easier to say the queer community than to list all the various and ever-changing labels under the queer umbrella of sexual orientations and gender identities. Each letter is important and serves a purpose. . . . However, LGBTQIA+ is a mouthful. “Queer” is only one syllable. Queer, in this context, simply means something other than cisgender and/or heterosexual. . . .
Growing up, I heard the label “queer” used in a derogatory manner . . . [but] the term “queer” has been reclaimed as a positive term. I’m queer and unashamed. . . .
Another reason I have adopted the label “queer” is that it affords privacy . . . without divulging too many details. . . : sexual preference, history, medical treatments, transitional procedures, or other personal information. [But] if your gay friend doesn’t like being called “queer,” then don’t do it (Blaire Ostler, Queer Mormon Theology, 8-10, emphasis added).
Interesting, thought-provoking, definitely true for Blaire. Is it true for you? How do you feel about LGBTQ vs. queer? Comment below!
-Marci McPhee